Psychological trauma

Deathwatches Bataan Peninsula State University Baling Campus Sandmen D. Garcia IBIS -3 Child Psychology September 11, 2014 When the garget gets stopped The flirts thing that comes to mind when people say bullying Is punching, pushing, slapping, tripping, any corporal pain that you will sustain a person. And when they say bully, we tend to esteem of it as some hotshot as large, strong, scary, muscular guy that trips on the worn out smaller guy. But as the world shift into redbrick times, modern versions as well as arise.Verbal bullying can be Just as fell if not worse than physical bullying. And this time the emotional phase Is at stake. Not only can this cause trauma, but It also tantalise you crazy and cause mental Illness. The bully will give to a greater extent pain mentally than physically because they will degrade their target, making them life slight about themselves. There is also this cyber bullying, where the bullying steps up on the high-tech level. The bully wi ll take on less time on going to his victim to punch him.He just texts or calls his object or uses the internet, to spread bad words bout his target. This is the trim that arouse together with the social media networks, Its negative effects In all(prenominal) aspect of a person, physically, mentally, emotionally. Socially. The World Wide Web Is now techno instrument for these bullies to commence their operation and harass their victims online. And it doesnt stop when the target goes offline. Of course, the bullying would cause negative social views to the victims.They would not go out and socialize through and through any form because of the trauma and depression of being harassed online. I never experienced bullying. When I was a kid, I was sort of the bully. I dont admit how It happened but I could make the other kids obey me whenever we influence that time. Add to that I was being spoiled by my grandma, whenever my grandma would perpetually give me what I want. I also remem ber biting my pre-school instructor during tutorials after class because I want to go home already. My aunts and uncles would retell stories on how I was kind of ruthless that time.They verbalise I would penalise the kids if they disobey me by pulling heir hair straight to the ground, and I would smash their tiny little hands by a nettle many times. They say I was never stopped because my grandma would eternally defend me. Okay, I in truth was a bully. I never said what I did was right. And the important thing is that mentality was straightened, somehow. I still was to persecute, yes, persecute, the merit to be punished, really, but I dont perform it because, of course, it was a bad thought, also I think it was, in some way, childish to bully at my GE.Although we always see the bully as the bad guy, we could perhaps guess them. If we hate them so much, were no different to them. So lets look wooden-headed and comprehend on why these behaviors are superior to the bullies. M aybe they had a they took bullying as a defense mechanism. Bullying never really cause anything good to people. The victims would oftentimes suffer to depression, trauma, misery, inferiority, rejection, distress, and a lot more of physical, emotional, mental, social main bullying comes with.I really am against bullying. Of course, no one would want them, or their children, or brother, or sister, or friend, or anyone faithful to them, to be bullied and brought down. We want to end this. We want to take a brook and protect the ones we love. We wouldnt really understand bullying and why it happens to, nowadays, a lot of people unless we open our minds. And this is one of my targets as a psychology student, to know them, understand them, and to eventually make a better change.